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Do You Despise Waiting? Learn to be Content.

I spend a lot of time waiting. I wait for the coffee to stop dripping every morning. I wait for the washing machine to finish so I can move the clothes to the dryer. I wait for my kids in the pick-up line after school. I wait a lot. Since I spend so much time waiting, you’d think I’d be quite good at it. But the truth is, I’m not. I’m terrible at waiting. The worst part is I can’t just be still while I’m waiting.

I’ve spent a great deal of time thinking about the process of waiting as our family is currently in a “season” of waiting. Since February, we’ve been waiting to become approved as foster parents. I’m waiting for the state of Georgia to ask me to take temporary custody of someone else’s child. It’s a strange feeling as I’m essentially waiting for the worst day of someone’s life to happen. And as I wait, I am overcome by the desire to “do something.” Surely there’s someone I can call or email or meet with that can speed up this process. But the truth is we’ve already called, emailed, and met with everyone we can. There is nothing more I can do to cut through the red tape and God is screaming at me to just wait. It’s excruciating because I do not wait well.


In my quiet time with God, I’ve been asking why it is so hard for me to wait. In His great mercy, He has reminded me that I was not created for this world (see Hebrews 13:14, Philippians 3:20). As long as I remain on this earth, I will be forced to wait… to long… to yearn… for millions of different things, but ultimately for Heaven (see Romans 8:23). In other words, waiting is inevitable on this side of Heaven.

So how do I teach myself to wait well? I believe the key is contentment. I imagine contentment as a tightrope I’m gingerly trying to walk across without falling. Of course, I stumble many times. But when I read Paul’s words in Philippians 4:12, he says he has learned the secret to being content. He reveals that secret in the very next verse, “I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13).

As seasons of waiting ebb and flow in my life, I will continue to carefully balance my way across this tightrope of contentment. I will fall, but because of Christ in me, I will be able to get back up. I will be able to find peace in the midst of whatever it is I am waiting for, and I believe that is truly waiting well.

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My husband Joe and I have four children, Jack, Sam, Hailey, and Eli Henry. We enjoy spending time together as a family. I have a degree in Early Childhood Education from the University of West Georgia. I serve as the Preschool Pastor at Southern Hills. I love working with preschool kids and the awesome volunteers that make our ministry possible.


  1. I am the most impatient person on this earth. I am in constant need of prayer over my attitude because of my impatience. My daughter tells me mom, you are the most impatient person I know.

    I know, I know. I don’t mean to be this way, I try hard not to be, but it happens more than I would like to admit.

  2. vicki weathington says

    Melissa : As I read this, this is me . Did I write this. I search for things to do. I can’t sit still for very long after finishing a project or chore, than I’m looking for something else. I know I’m neglecting thingS I should be doing. Like Paul said in Romans 7:14-24 I delight in doing good but sin trips me up. How do I quite my mind slow it down and participate in more things that delight God. We have God’s promise and assurance that those who live in his truth and seek after him will find peace in His Grace Thank-you Jesus. We can pray for each.

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